The Only Way To Get To The Other Side Is By Changing The Path
There is no way to find a path that makes us happy without starting to learn how to deal with and overcome the stones that distort the path.
These obstacles follow each other and trip us up more than once, even when we try to get out of where we are and want to get to the other side.
It happens because we are obsessed with the idea of going back: we are anchored in this path that has hurt us so much, instead of taking another that allows us to move forward.
However, the difficulty encountered seems quite logical because even the softest rain wets.
Look behind only for future rehearsals
It costs us a lot to get the past to be just a place we look to know we are no longer the same.
It costs us a lot to sit down and reflect and realize that we can no longer look at what has been from the present perspective because the world goes on and we have to continue with it.
It is theoretically easy to tell someone: just forget about it and move on. In practice, it is complicated to say these same words to yourself: because it is we who feel and we know what it means to leave what hurts us in a drawer of unusual memories.
Because the best thing that we can do, when the path opposes us obstacles again and again, is to leave these memories to the care of the memory: so that they do not become double, or triple, so that what made evil does not repeat itself and if it happens, to find out how to get out of such a painful circle.
The new path doesn’t happen overnight
Make your way by walking or look for a new one. It is a little different but the purpose of the message is the same: it is important to be courageous and to move forward, but it will take time from us depending on the intensity of the bitter experiences we have had.
Letting go of the past involves healing wounds and wounds also need their period of healing and stitches: the emotional blockages generated by them force us to stop dead and get to know each other again, as it Only then will we be able to start new relationships and be happy with what we do
We then feel naked like worms when we discover that our truths are continually changing, and that sooner or later we are forced to lose in order to be able to continue to win: with time, and consistency, little by little.
“The path is made by walking
And when you look back
You see it feel like never before
You never walk again ”
-Antonio Machado-
The decision is in your hands
The only reality is that even if it takes a lot of effort to change course, the decision is in our hands, since no one else will. After a great sacrifice, you will then be able to feel free and fulfilled: then the new principles will arrive and you will be ready to open yourself to them.
Being prepared is without a doubt a semi-victory and it means that one day we will be able to change sides: we will build ourselves new emotions and if we go wrong in doing so, we will be able to remind ourselves that we have overcome this type of situations more than once.
In the end, the traces of our life will remain, that is to say what we have lived, which is part of us and which no longer constitutes obstacles. The new path will be proof that we have to pay a price for emotional well-being, and sometimes that it comes in the form of sharp curves and bad runs that must be learned to deal with.
